For those of you who find yourself torn between your dreams,confused about life's path this may be of little help. The first thing you must know is that I am a regular guy with no real philosophical training but as a regular guy I face almost everything like you guys may and I too am lost between the confusing paths of life.
Being in 10th grade, it is now time for me to chose a stream that would frame my destiny. If you have noticed almost every one in the age of 15 is either working to be an engineer or doctor. At first I too wanted somewhat the same thing but the I realized that all this was fake.
You see I figured out that I really did not have passion for those jobs they were not my ambition they were just ambition of a lot of people around me. We all like moving in groups, no one today seeks sympathy but they like groups that have faced similar catastrophes. Like if someone fails they do not want anyone to console them but want others who failed they feel comfortable around them. There are 10 factors that affect our life. ( Just know that theses were all written by me and you can chose or chose not to believe this.)
Being in 10th grade, it is now time for me to chose a stream that would frame my destiny. If you have noticed almost every one in the age of 15 is either working to be an engineer or doctor. At first I too wanted somewhat the same thing but the I realized that all this was fake.
You see I figured out that I really did not have passion for those jobs they were not my ambition they were just ambition of a lot of people around me. We all like moving in groups, no one today seeks sympathy but they like groups that have faced similar catastrophes. Like if someone fails they do not want anyone to console them but want others who failed they feel comfortable around them. There are 10 factors that affect our life. ( Just know that theses were all written by me and you can chose or chose not to believe this.)
Influence. Many times in life, a lot of things influence us, they might seem the world to you then but eentually you lose interest. So influence is just something which would distract you from the goal you seek to achieve in life. Like many of us work for money or study for marks this is a big distraction from our goals.
Inspiration. Inspiration is very similar to influence but is lot more beneficial. Things that inspire you are often the things your heart really want you to end up doing in life and you never get bored doing what you are inspired from.
Talent. It is well said that every one of us have talents hidden inside us. But many of us feel that just because we are talented at something we should make that our life. It differs for everyone but talents too can distract you from your true ambition.
Passion. Talent and passion seem correlated but there is a huge difference between these two terms. The thing with passion is no matter how bad you are at something, if you are passionate about it you shall never give up.
Fear. In life fear is our most encountered enemy. Most of us fear our future or the way I like to call it the unknown factor. Don’t let your fear stop you from moving ahead, you will have to take risks and you will have to face fear to pursue your goals.
Struggle. You cannot expect your life to be a fairy tale. Struggle is a factor we have to go through while striving for our dreams and again if you’re passionate about your dream struggle shall not affect you. Our life has its ups and downs let this not depress you.
Criticism. You might hate it when people criticize you especially if it’s related to your dreams. But in a harsh way criticism can be helpful. It allows you to view your faults and drawbacks and correct it. So take criticism in a positive way.
Competition. Our world has become a competitive hub and this can fluctuate you from your goals. Remember once you know your goal, you are all on your own don’t care who reaches there first all that matters is that you make it. And if you have to compete then compete with yourself.
Friends. Our friends play an important role in our life. It is nice to be friendly with everyone but it is important you spend time with those who understand your dreams and have a positive way of thinking.
Failure. It is important to understand that failure is a part of life. It is easy to say but extremely hard to apply. So strengthen your heart and always be ready. No matter how many times you fail you always get another try. So keep trying.
Thats all guys hope this could help.
Perfect but i totally disagree with 1 aspect at what ur not fully right ..You mentioned that most of them wanna to become Engineers or doctors .Yea true and even most of 'em Do it only for money ....But there are a few rare people who really love their subject In my case i wanna become an engineer but not for money ...Well It's my interest. i know its not at all easy but I'll give my best to acheive ... as an engineer I'll serve my country :')
ReplyDeletetnxs for your comments guys and raj very happy to know you already have an ambition in life and i know there are a lot of people who realy want to be doctors and engineers, but the comment I posted was for them who just want to do such jobs because everyone els does it . If you do it just because you love it then I have lot of respect for that. Thnxs for your comment.
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