Most of us pretend to be courageous or brave in front of others. But the truth is that we all a live a life of constant fear. Before exams you are scared of writing your papers, after writing them you are scared of your results. After your results you are scared of what your parents would think of your marks and there are loads of other examples too. No matter how much you try to hide it in each of us the fear of the future is hidden.
Once I realized this truth I tried to figure out how to fight it. And this is what I ended up with.(again this is a musing of a normal teenager and you may or may not choose to believe this). Here are a two ways to fight such fear.
Giving importance to only your opinions.
Most of the time this kind of fear arises when we think about what others think of us. If you take the above example you will notice that we are scared of are exams because their are a lot of people who want good results from you. The more you entertain others opinion on you the more you unknowingly entertain fear. So be yourself and give importance to your opinions only.
The Way of Surprises.
You can also fight this fear by appreciating or maybe learning from the surprises the future brings to you. If you can take a few blows of life then the fear of the unknown shall not haunt you. This way is hard cause sometimes surprises of life can get hurtful.
Finally you must remember that the unknown shall keep troubling you until and unless you stop being scared of it. So instead of living in fear live with joy.
Once I realized this truth I tried to figure out how to fight it. And this is what I ended up with.(again this is a musing of a normal teenager and you may or may not choose to believe this). Here are a two ways to fight such fear.
Giving importance to only your opinions.
Most of the time this kind of fear arises when we think about what others think of us. If you take the above example you will notice that we are scared of are exams because their are a lot of people who want good results from you. The more you entertain others opinion on you the more you unknowingly entertain fear. So be yourself and give importance to your opinions only.
The Way of Surprises.
You can also fight this fear by appreciating or maybe learning from the surprises the future brings to you. If you can take a few blows of life then the fear of the unknown shall not haunt you. This way is hard cause sometimes surprises of life can get hurtful.
Finally you must remember that the unknown shall keep troubling you until and unless you stop being scared of it. So instead of living in fear live with joy.
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