We all get used to things and once we do we hate leaving it behind. For example; when you study in a school for about 4 years and are told that you will have to change to a new one, at that point you are left with confused emotions. A lot of questions fill your mind."What if the new school isn't good?What about my friends? Will I be able to make new friends? "etc.
Such questions make us feel insecure to change. Change is a strange phenomenon because there is no guarantee that change will be good or bad. I have also been subjected to a lot of changes and I too was scared at what would happen. Then it struck me that life is useless without taking risks. Sometimes we will have to accept changes this is what brings adventure to life. When I see adventurous movies I often wonder why are our life's so plain. It is because many of us deny change, we fear where our decision will take us. But how do we know if a certain change is good or bad for us?? I can suggest only one way.
Ask the Heart.
Changes are mostly about choices and every time you come to point where you have to chose to or not to change, ask your heart. Ask it, if this would help you fulfill your dream, ask it if you will regret not choosing to change, ask it if you will miss an oppopportunity and if it is the right thing to do. And if your heart says yes then no matter what happens you will not regret your decision. Just remember, do not let your emotions cloud your decisions. Your friends shall come and go but you will have to move on, you will have to learn to socialize and make new friends.
Remember that changes are inevitable, you cant keep avoiding them so ask your heart, don't be scared and let changes surprise you.
Such questions make us feel insecure to change. Change is a strange phenomenon because there is no guarantee that change will be good or bad. I have also been subjected to a lot of changes and I too was scared at what would happen. Then it struck me that life is useless without taking risks. Sometimes we will have to accept changes this is what brings adventure to life. When I see adventurous movies I often wonder why are our life's so plain. It is because many of us deny change, we fear where our decision will take us. But how do we know if a certain change is good or bad for us?? I can suggest only one way.
Ask the Heart.
Changes are mostly about choices and every time you come to point where you have to chose to or not to change, ask your heart. Ask it, if this would help you fulfill your dream, ask it if you will regret not choosing to change, ask it if you will miss an oppopportunity and if it is the right thing to do. And if your heart says yes then no matter what happens you will not regret your decision. Just remember, do not let your emotions cloud your decisions. Your friends shall come and go but you will have to move on, you will have to learn to socialize and make new friends.
Remember that changes are inevitable, you cant keep avoiding them so ask your heart, don't be scared and let changes surprise you.
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